This is definitely one of the most insightful RSA videos I've ever watched which covers our self-justifications, our capacity and inclinations to seek our own selfish interests while fully engaged in rationalization of those choices (sins!), and the inherent problems of the distancing from people that working in finance exacerbates terribly, which I'd noted when I worked in investment banking industry earlier in my career. In my experience and understanding as a Christian, Dr. Dan Ariely makes significant inroads into nailing reality as it truly is:
The Truth about Dishonesty
That video is approximately 11 minutes, long. There's a longer version of 28+ minutes, here. At the second link, there is another link which leads to a Q & A session. Dan Ariely also has a series of TED talks which we can listen to, and his book develops his insights and studies, further: Predictably Irrational.
The healthiest aspect of Dan Ariely's insights is that he seeks out what can mitigate and temper these selfish interests to which we are all naturally subject. Ariely is a professor of psychology and behavioral economics at Duke University.
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
On money & power – men and women differ!
Figure 1 - source: http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mc0mel2ewi1rj8amio1_1280.jpg
It
seems little has changed in the male-privileged power circles since my stint in
NYC and eastern US investment banking. Within the higher echelons which identify wealth as power, women who don't cater to &/or serve the
dominant paradigm are rare or non-existent. It's not a coincidence, according
to statistically-based research, that merely admitting a woman's influence and hearing her voice
change group outcomes. Romney is not alone in his disregard of women. Genesis
3 is alive & kicking in the world, today, and certainly in NYC and DC.
In
regard to the worship of money, there truly exists a substantive difference
between women's & men's use of money. The statistical studies of the UN, World
Bank, UNESCO and other NGO's, viewed alongside the results of microfinance
initiatives in the developing world, have revealed significant differences in
the way men and women employ money. (cf., Half the Sky - book or documentary, the
UN’s
summary, and other resources available on the web)
When
more women disconnect further from family responsibilities and social ties (to
which we're more tied, bodily – barring contraception, celibacy or infertility)
and manipulate others in order to acquire worldly power, the discrepancy
diminishes. Conversely, when men are more
actively connected to families and communities, and less to one another's approval and
ruling over others via power-games, then the gap also diminishes. We need to pay attention to the actions more than to the lip-service. Women may say they value men, but their actions reveal manipulative techniques to acquire power and win. Men may say they value women more than money, but seek every opportunity to gain power and diminish and rule over women. Both genders will rationalize and justify their actions, verbally. Ignore the words that don't match the actions and outcomes! Power games are not confined to physical force; power games include emotional, sexual and religious blackmail, intellectual domination, financial fraud and deceptive practices, legal machinations, and systemic economic injustice.
This
description circumscribes the profound need of our world. Here is where I see the reconciling work of God
in Christ, God imaged male & female in creation, God working in &
through the church, as having profound effects on the world as we know it:
connecting men more strongly to God, women & their families; and giving
worth & voice to women in their embodied gifts which inform their valuing of
reality diversely to men. Both men and women properly use their equally-valued gifts
to serve God, neighbors and enemies with the other gender. Thus,
the Holy Spirit-empowered church of men and women cut off the dual temptations to
over-value money & power and de-value healthy relationships with one another!
[Note:
I have a third blog post on the Conference on Civility to complete. Please forgive
this intervening tangent!]
Friday, October 5, 2012
Uncommon Decency 2
Part 2 of a series of posts on a Conference held in Washington, DC, Saturday, Sept. 29, 2012:
Uncommon Decency: Christian Civility in an Uncivil Season
Following Dr. Mouw (summarized in previous
post), Ross Douthat of the NY Times spoke about civility from the
perspective of the gospel writers’ observations of Jesus. In his position as an
Opinion Editorial writer, he tries to live out civility in his public life.
However, the question remains: is there ever when enlightened zeal can switch
from civil to uncivil? Douthat contends that Jesus’ words to the Pharisees in
Matthew 23 indicate that there are times for incivility in discourse with
others. There are some, of course, who say that Jesus was the Son of God so he
can do what we may not. However, setting aside that restriction which we’ll
never meet, Douthat presented an analysis of the context in which Jesus and the
OT prophets spoke with such harshness.
Douthat proposed
there are three critical criteria which need to be met for speaking with
incivility:
- The speaker is speaking to his/her own community, who should share the same fundamental premises and beliefs as the speaker.
- The speaker speaks against people of power within the community from a position of powerlessness, and speaks on behalf of those who are oppressed and persecuted by the powerful clique.
- The speaker addresses issues which are primary to the community’s beliefs, not secondary issues. The primary issues are those which address good and evil, justice and injustice.
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Douthat referenced Michael Walzer’s book, In God’s Shadow: Politics in the Hebrew
Bible, which evidently noted that there isn’t much in the OT directly
written about politics, but there is plenty of direct theological and moral
language directed against those oppressing the poor, doing evil against others and sowing
injustice in the community.
So, as a Catholic speaking to fellow Catholics, Douthat said
that he could speak more in a form of a jeremiad; however, in another forum,
with a different audience who are outsiders to that group (e.g., readers of the
NY Times), he phrases things differently. Douthat noted that
his recent book, Bad Religion, had been called a “refined jeremiad” by a reviewer.
As examples of people who suit the criteria, Douthat noted
that Harriet Beecher Stowe used jeremiad-like language when speaking against
slavery as a woman abolitionist. The language employed and the manner in which
she spoke were markedly different than that of President Abraham Lincoln, who
addressed the nation from the highest position of power, as an insider and as
the embodiment of civil authority to the nation.
Douthat believes that our failure to maintain the balance
thus illustrated provokes all sorts of problems.
He gave the contemporary example of Archbishop of New York,
Cardinal Timothy Dolan, who fought vigorously against Pres. Obama on the issue
of contraceptives and Roman Catholic convictions, but who then invited
President Obama to the Alfred
E. Smith Dinner. Douthat perceived this as a measure of respect for Obama’s
civil position despite the RCC’s outspoken opposition on the issue of contraceptives and
women’s freedom. However, the invitation enraged many conservative Catholics.
The word, “jeremiad”, offers a unique religious glimpse into
the societal confusion we’re experiencing, today. There is less of a Christian
“center and focus” for American dialogue about issues, and many people “love
Jesus” but want to make him into their own image. Americans are uncertain about
the implications of their own positions, and even more uncertain or mistaken
about the true positions of those against whom we’re arguing. Furthermore,
groups have reasons to see themselves as being in a position of powerlessness.
After the 2004 election, for instance, secular liberals believed themselves to
have been shoved aside by “morality” voters. Subsequently, conservative
believers reacted to the “secular” victory they perceived as endangering their
values in the 2008 election. The
responses from both ends of the spectrum came from perceptions of personal
powerlessness and uncertainty over those with whom they’re arguing. [I’d note
that “alienation” might have been a better word choice than Douthat’s use of
“uncertainty” in this context. Polarization of groups has made it rare for many
people to have friends among the “opposition”.] The result is that people
perceive themselves justified in repeatedly resorting to the use of the
language of jeremiad. Douthat pointed out that the far right perceives itself
marginalized, uses such language, but has identified itself as “The Moral
Majority”. The depiction of Obama by a few liberals as a president of messianic
proportions was appropriated by many conservatives to justify their turn toward conspiracy theorists, such as Glenn Beck and other Revelation-quoting
religionists.
In closing, Douthat connected the de-institutionalization of
American “Christians”, on the one hand, with the inspiration of many to pour
their disembodied passions into another “body” or institution – “the
body politic”. People will split and
divide because we do so, naturally; however, it’s important for everyone to see the spectrum
of opinions. Neither political party has monopoly on truth from the religious
perspective we have as Christians. We can't look to or expect any political party
to craft all their party’s positions according to Christ.
Dialogue, conciliation and compromise are imperative in
civil society!
Next blog: wrap up, with Q & A session
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Uncommon Decency: Christian Civility in an Uncivil Season
On Saturday, I attended a Conference on Civility held in
Washington, DC, at the National Presbyterian Church. The speakers were Dr. Richard Mouw (President of
Fuller Theological Seminary) and Ross
Douthat (NY Times columnist, author and editor). Michael Cromartie,
VP of the Ethics & Public Policy Center in DC was the moderator. The
speakers critiqued the current cultural climate in a helpful manner, and
challenged the church to be more proactive in promoting civil discourse for the
common good.
Dr. Richard Mouw spoke first. He began by outlining the need
for religion to provide a constructive frame for social harmony. Without proper
framing, humans naturally split into various factions. “Zeal” for our own
groups (& groups’ agendas) overtakes civility and the need to live
harmoniously with others with whom we disagree. Mouw referenced James Madison’s
Federalist Paper #10, wherein Madison explored problems posed to healthy
government by human factions operating with harmful zeal (section
10.7). Mouw then expressed his concern that we not give up “zeal”
altogether, because the apostle Paul clearly described the characteristics of both
bad and good zeal in his letters (cf. Romans 9:30-10:4, & 12:1-21). Mouw
cited John Calvin’s Institutes (book IV, ch. 2) in which Calvin wrote that civil
government is formed and given the mandate to promote and preserve concord and
common peace. It’s remarkable that the US government has had a history, within many of our lifetimes, of
perceiving political rivalry as not inherently antithetical to or prohibiting
of friendship and fellowship. Mouw specifically mentioned the political rivalry but
personal friendship between Pres. Reagan and House speaker, Tip O’Neill.
Rather, we need to choose the path of “convicted civility”.
Mouw attributes the phrase to Martin Marty,
who used it in his 1981 book, By Way of Response.
Marty further developed the theme in a later book, Politics, Religion, and the Common Good: “A problem in contemporary
life, [Marty] said, is that the folks who are good at being civil often don’t
have very strong convictions, and the people who have strong convictions
usually aren’t very civil.”
The word, “civility”, comes from the word rooted in “city”.
According to Aristotle, civility begins with kinship and friendship, but
maturity enables us to recognize and respond respectfully to the stranger, because
we share common bonds of humanity and dwelling together within the city. We can
treat others with dignity and honor, respecting what we share in common while
acknowledging the differences between us.
Catholics and evangelicals have had theological
understandings based on being marginalized in American society for decades, but
we haven’t developed a good theological understanding of how to live within the
center of government, economics and society. [Blogger’s note: I understood that Mouw was driving at the difference
in engagement and volume of rhetoric which is needed for outsiders and for
insiders, here. Excluded, marginalized and disenfranchised people find
themselves needing to crank up the volume of their voices and harden their
words in order to be heard, as it were. Disharmony and dissonance result when
those people are truly being listened to, but cannot or won’t stop
shouting and harshly criticizing others, and/or cannot cease operating from an
assumption of being marginalized.]
Humans have defective characters, and the way for Christians
to participate healthily in society's center is founded in becoming “the right kind
of people”, by which Mouw means that our character has to be reformed by humbling ourselves before God through spiritual disciplines and enacting Christian values. Our manners should be shaped
for public life, and Mouw referenced Ronald
Thiemann’s insight that local congregations should be functioning as schools
of common virtue. Furthermore, we need to regain our old commitments to
community which have been lost in our selfish, individually-centered pursuits.
The sociologist, Robert Bellah, developed the understanding that we, as
Americans, have lost our sense of being committed to something larger than
ourselves. We have forgotten or misplaced the worth of loyalty to each other as
fellow humans and citizens.
Mouw touched upon Calvin’s explication of Just War theory,
and emphasized that, at the end of all the evaluations of arguments for and
against war, Calvin specifically called upon us to examine ourselves and to
perceive the opposing side as fellow humans. War should never be undertaken
when we have failed to grasp both our own tendencies to over-evaluate ourselves
as “good”, and dismiss others as “bad”. The Psalms have numerous shifts which
demonstrate this necessary spiritual discipline. Psalm
139, for instance, after celebrating the humanity and wonder of the
psalmist’s person and God’s creation, strongly denounces the wicked in vv.
19-22, but then immediately asks God to search his own heart and mind (vv. 23-24).
Should God find any “wicked” or “offensive” way within the psalmist or today’s reciter
of the psalm, we implore God to reveal that way and lead us in “the way
everlasting”.
We need to love our neighbors as ourselves, in every way,
action, conversation and choice. (In a later discussion with Dr. Mouw, we agreed that business and financial decisions and actions are included in this commitment to love our neighbors!) In every discussion, even regarding hot-button
issues such as human sexual expression, “how may we express our views without
being needlessly offensive” to the other? We must never bear “false witness”, either,
by misrepresenting what the other truly believes or testifies to be true, because we’ve failed to listen
well, and to allow them to tell us.
“We aren’t just pitting position against position”,
according to Mouw, we truly need to see one another as humans together. Mouw has recently revised, expanded and re-published his book, Uncommon Decency: Christian Civility in an Uncivil World.
Next blog: Ross Douthat’s presentation.
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